The Chef Who Doesn’t Perform
Meet Robert Sandberg. Six years after trading Michelin kitchens in Scandinavia for the private dining rooms of Los Angeles, the Swedish chef has built something rare – a career defined not by spectacle or social media strategy, but by the simple, stubborn conviction that if the food is right, everything else follows.
Text by Marcus Dunberg
“I’m a chef,” he says.
Ask Robert what he does for a living and the answer is disarmingly short. “I’m a chef,” he says. Not a culinary director. Not a restaurateur. Not a brand. A chef. It’s the kind of answer that, in Los Angeles – a city where everyone seems to be building a platform – feels almost radical in its simplicity.
But then, simplicity has always been Sandberg’s mode. He trained at Noma in Copenhagen and later cooked at Kong Hans Kælder, Maaemo in Oslo, and Frantzén in Stockholm – kitchens where discipline is a given and shortcuts don’t exist. In 2016, he won the Worldchefs Hans Bueschkens Young Chef Challenge. He arrived
in LA with serious credentials and very little interest in leveraging them for anything other than cooking.
“Michelin kitchens teach you discipline. They teach you precision and standards. What they don’t teach you is how to chase clout,” he says.
“I never learned that part. I’m not sure I’d want to.”
That directness has, paradoxically, opened doors that self-promotion might not have. Sandberg now cooks privately for some of the wealthiest people in the world, in homes where the budget is irrelevant. We’re talking Jeff Bezos. Elon Musk. Matt Damon, who has become a close friend; their families spend time together now, well beyond the confines of any dinner service.
“What I value most is the freedom,” he says. “No budget constraints, no limitations. I can cook exactly what I want. That kind of opportunity really only exists here. And once one person likes you, word travels fast in those circles. What started as work has become part of everyday life.”
“I’m tired of it, honestly. Too rehearsed. Too aware of itself."
In these homes, he isn’t treated like hired staff. He becomes part of the room – trusted, invited back, folded into a world where someone might casually spend three million dollars on a birthday party or call a pilot on a whim to fly to Thailand the next morning. The conversations are different when that kind of money is in the air, he acknowledges, but the dynamic suits him. He cooks. They eat. No performance required.
Fine dining, as a formal concept, has lost its hold on him. “I’m tired of it, honestly. Too rehearsed. Too aware of itself. LA has a strong food culture, but fine dining isn’t really the point here. It’s all about the vibe. Sometimes the food feels almost secondary.” His response isn’t to fight that instinct – it’s to cook in a way that cuts through it. He trusts his palate. Doesn’t overthink trends. If it tastes right, it is right.
"The ramen counter that’s been refining broth for a decade. That’s what excites me.”
Off the clock, his tastes run in the opposite direction. He’ll eat at a strip-mall
noodle spot before any white-tablecloth restaurant. “I love the hole-in-the-wall places where someone is completely obsessed with one thing and does it exceptionally well. The taco stand that’s been perfecting one recipe. The ramen counter that’s been refining broth for a decade. That’s what excites me.”
The style question in LA, he notes, reflects the same informality. People don’t like being told how to sit, dress, or behave – and that suits him just fine. “These days I dress in sweatpants, hoodies, vintage Levi’s and old retro T-shirts. What used to be considered ugly when I was growing up is stylish now.”
I fly several times a week, often with friends.
When he’s not in the kitchen, Sandberg is almost certainly in the air. Aviation has fascinated him since childhood – even airports themselves held a kind of magic. After moving to the United States, he earned his pilot’s license, and then kept going. He now holds a commercial license for twin-engine aircraft up to six tons and larger propeller planes. “I fly several times a week, often with friends. We thread over the LA basin and out toward the desert, searching for unusual landing spots on mountaintops or along remote gravel strips. There’s always risk in it. That’s part of the appeal.”
Life, by most measures, is good.
Sandberg is now an American citizen. He lives in a quiet, residential pocket of West Hollywood, far from the noise, even though most of what passes for LA’s social life happens well outside of Hollywood proper.
He trains regularly. He eats out constantly. He flies. And he tattoos his body – realistic black-and-grey work: two tigers, his dogs, fragments of memory – without much planning. “I started at fourteen. A friend was getting tattooed and I tagged along. My parents weren’t supposed to know. After that, I just never stopped.” He’s getting one more piece done next month, after which he considers himself finished.
“If you’re restless, it’s the perfect city.
And then there’s the marriage to former adult film star Mia Khalifa in 2020 – followed by their separation the next year. But that’s a whole other story.
Los Angeles, he says, fits him in ways that are hard to fully explain. “If you’re restless, it’s the perfect city. There’s always something happening. Everything is big. Everyone’s doing their own thing. You can go a year without seeing friends – mostly because of the traffic – and nobody takes it
personally.” He pauses. “But it feels like home now. California feels like home.”
In a town that rewards performance, Robert Sandberg has built a life by refusing to give one.